Mindmap-Mindset

Mindmap-Mindset

• Book:Mindset, The New Psychology of Success
  • Author: Carol Dweck
  • ISBN-9780345472328
  • Pages: 449
  • Chapters: 8
  • DateRead: 20130329
• Fixed Mindset
  • 1.Fixed Mindset leads to a desire to look smart

    2.Fixed Mindset avoid Challenges

    3.Fixed Mindset give up easily

    4.Fixed Mindset see effort as fruitless or worse

    5.Fixed Mindset ignore useful negative feedback

    6.Fixed Mindset feel threatened by the success of others

    7.Fixed Mindset RESULT: plateau early and achieve less than their full potential

    8.Fixed mindset believing that your qualities are carved in stone

    9.Fixed mindset believing your personal traits are fixed

    10.Fixed mindset creates an urgency to prove yourself over and over

    11.Fixed mindset focus on permanent traits

    12.Fixed mindset fear challenges

    13.Fixed mindset devalue effort

    14.Fixed mindset produces non-learners, they already know it [no need to learn]

    15.Fixed mindset only interested when the feedback reflected on their ability

    16.Fixed mindset put people on a pedestal

    17.Fixed mindset make people feel perfect

    18.Fixed mindset worship people

    19.Fixed mindset fixed qualities

    20.Fixed mindset it’s not enough just to succeed.

    21.Fixed mindset it’s not enough just to look smart and talented.

    22.Fixed mindset you have to be pretty much flawless

    23.Fixed mindset you have to be flawless right away

    24.Fixed mindset measure the fixed ability right now and project it into the future

    25.Fixed mindset must succeed perfectly and immediately

    26.Fixed mindset always proving that they are special and superior

    27.Fixed mindset believe that talent is ALL

    28.Fixed mindset the loss of one’s self to failure can be a permanent, haunting trauma.

    29.Fixed mindset my Success Is Your Failure

    30.Fixed mindset try to repair their self-esteem after a failure is by assigning blame or making excuses

    31.Fixed mindset higher levels of depression

    32.Fixed mindset effort is only for people with deficiencies.

    33.Fixed mindset when failure: “I could have been [fill in the blank].”

    34.Fixed mindset proving superiority over and over [on anything]

    35.Fixed mindset easily discouraged

    36.Fixed mindset will quit in a heartbeat

    37.Fixed mindset will skip learning when feeling that there is room for failure

    38.Fixed mindset everything is about outcome

    39.Fixed mindset low effort and always looking for easy task

    40.Fixed mindset prefer effortless success

    41.Fixed mindset always putting their talent in display

    42.Fixed mindset intolerant of mistakes

    43.Fixed mindset less confident person

    44.Fixed mindset early performance tells you all you need to know about their talent and their future.

    45.Fixed mindset imperfections are shameful

    46.Fixed mindset criticism: view as a threat, an insult or an attack

    47.Fixed mindset setbacks: a total failure

    48.Fixed mindset does not cope well with adversities

    49.Fixed mindset does not need a team

    50.Fixed mindset delivers blame and excuses during failure

    51.Fixed mindset full of bitterness

    52.Fixed mindset always thinking of being brilliant

    53.Fixed mindset felt judged and labeled by the rejection

    54.Fixed mindset rejection is like the end of the world

    55.Fixed mindset when rejection happens: REVENGE is the #1 priority

    56.Fixed mindset believe that your qualities are fixed

    57.Fixed mindset believe your partner’s qualities are fixed

    58.Fixed mindset believe that relationship’s qualities are fixed—inherently good or bad, meant-to-be or not

    59.Fixed mindset meant-to-be.

    60.Fixed mindset the ideal is instant, perfect, and perpetual compatibility. Like it was meant to be

    61.Fixed mindset a mind reader-always reading partner/spouse mind and making assumptions

    62.Fixed mindset believe that a couple should share all of each other’s views

    63.Fixed mindset assume entitlement-hey I deserve this…

    64.Fixed mindset assign blame to a failing relationship ie. character flaw

    65.Fixed mindset blame self or partner when relationship go sour

    66.Fixed mindset always defending self

    67.Fixed mindset shy type

    68.Fixed mindset lack social skills

    69.Fixed mindset avoid meeting new friends

    70.Fixed mindset does not like to let their guard down

    71.Fixed mindset cannot let go of fear of failure or rejection

    72.Fixed mindset I have a certain amount of intelligence, and I can’t really do much to change it.”

    73.Fixed mindset “I’d feel like a reject”

    74.Fixed mindset “I’m a total failure”

    75.Fixed mindset “I’m an idiot”

    76.Fixed mindset “I’m a loser”

    77.Fixed mindset “I’d feel worthless and dumb—everyone’s better than me”

    78.Fixed mindset “My life is pitiful.”

    79.Fixed mindset “I have no life.”

    80.Fixed mindset “Somebody upstairs doesn’t like me.”

    81.Fixed mindset “The world is out to get me.”

    82.Fixed mindset “Someone is out to destroy me.”

    83.Fixed mindset “Nobody loves me, everybody hates me.”

    84.Fixed mindset “Life is unfair and all efforts are useless.”

    85.Fixed mindset “Life stinks. I’m stupid. Nothing good ever happens to me.”

    86.Fixed mindset “I’m the most unlucky person on this earth.”

    87.Fixed mindset “Do nothing.”

    88.Fixed mindset “Stay in bed.”

    89.Fixed mindset “Get drunk.”

    90.Fixed mindset “Eat.”

    91.Fixed mindset “Yell at someone if I get a chance to.”

    92.Fixed mindset “Eat chocolate.”

    93.Fixed mindset “Listen to music and pout.”

    94.Fixed mindset “Go into my closet and sit there.”

    95.Fixed mindset “Pick a fight with somebody.”

    96.Fixed mindset “Cry.”

    97.Fixed mindset “Break something.”

    98.Fixed mindset “What is there to do?”

    99.Fixed mindset “If you have to work at something, you must not be good at it.”

    100.Fixed mindset “Things come easily to people who are true geniuses.”

    101.Fixed mindset “People have a certain fixed amount of management ability

    102.Fixed mindset and they cannot do much to change it.”

    103.Fixed mindset I’m unlovable

    104.Fixed mindset “If I had to choose between me being happy and him being miserable, I would definitely want him to be

    105.Fixed mindset miserable.”

    106.Fixed mindset “As a husband/wife, I have a right to—’ and my husband/wife has the duty to—.”

    107.Fixed mindset ‘I’m not going to wash the dishes, no way. That’s a woman’s job.’

    108.Fixed mindset the man/woman I loved was a bad person

    109.Fixed mindset he/she was a bad person and drove him/her away

    110.Fixed mindset “relationship was bad and irreparable”

    111.Fixed mindset my partner is incapable of change

    112.Fixed mindset Nothing can improve our relationship

    113.Fixed mindset “I am a football player, and therefore I’m better than you.”

    114.Fixed mindset “I am a basketball player … pathetic geeks like you are not on my level.”

    115.Fixed mindset You have permanent traits and I’m judging them

• Growth Mindset
  • 1.Growth mindset believe that anyone can be anything

    2.Growth mindset believe that a person’s true potential is unknown (and unknowable);

    3.Growth mindset based on the belief that your basic qualities are things you can cultivate through your efforts

    4.Growth mindset believe that you can learn anything and new things as they come

    5.Growth mindset believe they are learners

    6.Growth mindset paid close attention to information that could stretch their knowledge. Only for them was learning a priority

    7.Growth mindset see people’s faults and help them to work on them.

    8.Growth mindset challenge people to become a better person.

    9.Growth mindset encourage them to learn new things.

    10.Growth mindset effort is the key to success

    11.Growth mindset success is about being your best self, not about being better than others

    12.Growth mindset learn from failure

    13.Growth mindset will not quit easily

    14.Growth mindset will take the challenge

    15.Growth mindset will comeback another day and fight

    16.Growth mindset not easily discourage

    17.Growth mindset continue their effort even if progress is not visible

    18.Growth mindset eagerness to learn and advance despite repeated failure

    19.Growth mindset passionate of what they do

    20.Growth mindset outcome of effort is not the ultimate goal, the journey is more important

    21.Growth mindset value what they’re doing regardless of the outcome.

    22.Growth mindset hard effort and always looking for a difficult task

    23.Growth mindset humble about their talent

    24.Growth mindset love mistakes, it is vehicle for learning

    25.Growth mindset a confident person, nothing to prove

    26.Growth mindset early performance is not an indicator of great success

    27.Growth mindset imperfections is a source of motivation

    28.Growth mindset criticism: comments are helpful, a positive feedback

    29.Growth mindset setbacks: motivating and stimulating and encouraging

    30.Growth mindset during failure: i will double my effort

    31.Growth mindset loves adversities, it is a room for growth

    32.Growth mindset loves team environment

    33.Growth mindset delivers encouragement to the team when there is failure

    34.Growth mindset full of gratitude

    35.Growth mindset always thinking of growth and passion

    36.Growth mindset rejection does not define the future but a stepping stone for change

    37.Growth mindset accepts rejection wholeheartedly

    38.Growth mindset when rejection happens: accepts the facts and move on [not dwelling too long]

    39.Growth mindset things can be developed

    40.Growth mindset all—you, your partner, and the relationship—are capable of growth and change

    41.Growth mindset confront a bad situation and look for resolution

    42.Growth mindset so forgiving and give partner a room to grow/change

    43.Growth mindset being patient while in a bad/difficult relationsh

    44.Growth mindset “I’d start thinking about studying harder”

    45.Growth mindset “I’d look at what was wrong on my exam, resolve to do better”

    46.Growth mindset “People can always substantially change their basic skills for managing other people.”

    47.Growth mindset You are a developing person and I am interested in your development

    48.Growth mindset “I did not win the tournament and will try a different strategy next time”

    49.Growth mindset ”I’m diagnosed with a life ending illness, I will spend the rest of my remaining days the best I can”

    50.Growth mindset ”I will cry but I will find ways to change things”

    51.Growth mindset ”I will not succumb to self destructive actions when I fail”

    52.Growth mindset ”I will force myself to get up every morning and start a motivating day even if I do not feel doing it”

    53.Growth mindset ”I will not use eating/overeating as a way of escape of my situation”

    54.Growth mindset ”I will not go to my closet and sit there all day and ponder about my failures”

    55.Growth mindset ”I will look for another job instead of finding blame why I was let go”

    56.Growth mindset ”I will not break things to show that I am really upset”

    57.Growth mindset ”I will refuse to pick a fight with anybody”

    58.Growth mindset ”I will not be paralyzed by my misfortune, I will do something positive to regain my status”

    59.Growth mindset ”My depression is holding me back in life, but I will find ways to help myself”

    60.Growth mindset ”My partner’s love is gone, I will give him/her time to ponder about the relationship”

    61.Growth mindset ”I will not give up in a relationship easily”

    62.Growth mindset ”I received a traffic violation, I will make sure I learned my mistakes and not repeat it”

    63.Growth mindset ”My friend did not treat me well, I will understand and find reasons why and I will not judge him/her”

    64.Growth mindset ”I will not label someone if I am mistreated”

    65.Growth mindset ”I will not use mind-reading in a relationship, I will ask about his/her actions”

    66.Growth mindset ”I will confront any challenges that comes to life and not run away from it”

    67.Growth mindset ”I will always focus on my development everyday to make myself better in life”

    68.Growth mindset ”I don’t have a skill to write but I will try writing anyway”

    69.Growth mindset ”I can’t run long distance but I will start training no matter what”

    70.Growth mindset ”Co workers and friends are a resource for learning and not competition”

    71.Growth mindset ”I will stretch my thinking and patience if I am in a bad situation”

    72.Growth mindset ”I am not a very smart person but I will study harder and read more”

    73.Growth mindset ”I will double up my effort”

    74.Growth mindset ”I will show my failures to others so that they too can learn”

    75.Growth mindset ”I will encourage my partner to become a better person”

    76.Growth mindset ”I will take remedial courses to keep up”

    77.Growth mindset ”I will do it even if it is impossible”

    78.Growth mindset ”I will keep going in my endeavor even if I can see the finish line”

    79.Growth mindset ”I will force myself to read books even if I don’t like to read”

    80.Growth mindset ”I will listen to others when they me things or lessons”

    81.Growth mindset ”I will not aim for perfection but I will aim to closer-perfection”

    82.Growth mindset ”I will do something that I could not do before”

    83.Growth mindset ”I have OCD but I will find ways why this gift is given to me”

    84.Growth mindset ”I am diagnosed bipolar but I will find ways to harness the power of this disorder”

    85.Growth mindset ”I am special/different but I will find ways to cultivate my gifts”

    86.Growth mindset ”My illness will not put me or my mind in a box, I will find ways to make it serve me or others”

    87.Growth mindset ”I am unhappy but I will try to overcome my unhappiness in whatever way possible”

    88.Growth mindset ”I will take some big risk”

    89.Growth mindset ”I am not afraid of failure”

    90.Growth mindset ”My boss told me that I am not good enough, I will find ways to show him/her that he/she is wrong”

    91.Growth mindset ”I don’t know the direction of my life, I will ask people, or read or research and study my skills and strengths”

    92.Growth mindset ”I will not live to convince or prove to people that I am good or the best, I am satisfied with what I have”

    93.Growth mindset ”I will not compete with others”

    94.Growth mindset ”I will not compare my life with others”

    95.Growth mindset ”I will not criticize others, I will give rooms to their imperfections”

    96.Growth mindset ”I will not complain on any difficult situation, I will accept any misfortune and hardship and then find ways to get out from it”

    97.Growth mindset ”I will think of life as a journey”

    98.Growth mindset ”I am not the best, but I will find ways to be the best in some ways”

    99.Growth mindset ”I will pick a thing that I love to do and stay at it no matter what”

    100.Growth mindset ”I will continue in my pursuit on something even if I’m surrounded by naysayers”

    101.Growth mindset ”The door is closed for me, I will looks for another open door”

    102.Growth mindset ”Someone took my water well, I will dig another water well somewhere”

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