Saying Goodbye In A Special Way
July 9, 2015 Leave a comment
I lost a close friend [co-worker] yesterday. When I read the news article about the accident, it felt like my heart stopped for a moment.
I came to work Wednesday morning not knowing that something bad had happened. But something weird happened that morning because I wrote “A Journey So Beautiful” that morning at 5am. I stopped writing my thoughts in my journal. Mostly now, I shared some articles about life and make comments but somehow, yesterday morning was different. I listened to my heart.
Carlos and I shared the same passion for Christ. I’ve known him for maybe >7 years but we don’t talk much. I don’t even have his phone number and address. I mentored this guy in a silent way because he is a very quite guy, seemed distant and peculiar. One day at work, I finally approached him and quoted a Bible verse as we ran our level1 one [casual] conversation. He looked at me deeply and then smiled. I knew in my heart he knew what I was talking about. From that time on, I made it a habit that when I see him anywhere in the factory, I usually extend my hand for a firm handshake, a smile, a gaze and no words. A deep silent friendship started.
Carlos …
A man with few words.
A man who will not start a conversation unless you throw the first word or question at him.
A man with a silent firm handshake.
A man who just do the work without question.
A man whose silence is so loud.
A man who listens well.
A man who does not know the word “complain”.
A man who never say negative words.
A man who follows instructions without deviating even a single step.
A man who is so obedient and gentle.
A man whose friendship I will truly miss.